{"id":7862,"date":"2022-02-10T10:36:36","date_gmt":"2022-02-10T10:36:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/pomaranczowa-ciuchcia.staginglab.pro\/?p=7862"},"modified":"2022-02-23T14:36:38","modified_gmt":"2022-02-23T14:36:38","slug":"pozytywna-dyscyplina-z-pomaranczowa-akademia-rodzica-duplicate-7540-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pomaranczowa-ciuchcia.staginglab.pro\/en\/blog\/if-children-take-over-parent-behavior-4\/","title":{"rendered":"How to deal with a child's difficult behavior?"},"content":{"rendered":"
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How to deal with your child's difficult behavior in four steps\u00a0<\/strong>? Everything you need to know<\/strong><\/h6>\n
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Every child, through inappropriate behavior, wants to show us their emotions and thoughts, verbalize their own opinion, or draw attention to themselves.<\/h6>\n<\/div>\n
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Children behave badly when they feel bad. In such moments, they need support from someone who understands them and shows them that emotions can be expressed in a way that does not hurt them or others.<\/h6>\n<\/div>\n
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\u2022 School Readiness - When is a child ready to go to school?<\/a><\/h6>\n
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Depending on the age of the child, inappropriate behaviour manifests itself in various, probably inexhaustible configurations.<\/h6>\n<\/div>\n
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Younger children run away, throw toys, cry, hit, or stomp their feet. Older children, at school age, start to engage more boldly in discussions to emphasize their independence \u2013 refusing to do school or household chores, and sometimes they are aggressive \u2013 verbally or physically.<\/h6>\n<\/div>\n
We often wonder if children do it consciously?<\/strong><\/h6>\n
It probably depends on the child's intentions, awareness of their behavior and emotional competence.<\/h6>\n
We should remember that the action plan is one of the most important elements of working on inappropriate behavior!\u00a0<\/h6>\n
It is important that the child knows what to expect when he or she behaves inappropriately, is prepared for a conversation and, above all, can draw their own conclusions and be aware of the consequences.<\/h6>\n
It's not about punishments and rewards! It's about talking and developing the ability to deal with emotions in an acceptable way.<\/h6>\n
How to deal with difficult child behavior in four steps?<\/strong><\/h6>\n
Step 1. The most important thing is for the child to be calm when you start talking about their inappropriate behavior. Only start when you know that the child will be able to concentrate on talking to you, without crying, screaming, or complaining.<\/h6>\n
Step 2. Ask your child \u2013 \u201cWhat did you think was inappropriate about your behavior?\u201d<\/h6>\n
Important! When talking to younger children, it is worth first saying what you thought was inappropriate, then ask the child to say in their own words what they should not do because it could hurt others.<\/h6>\n
Step 3. Continue and ask the question, \u201cHow should you behave in this situation?\u201d<\/h6>\n
Visualizing good behavior is a fundamental factor in helping a child modify their behavior, increasing the likelihood that it will not repeat itself in the future or will repeat itself with less intensity, and the child will be able to react in real time!<\/h6>\n
Step 4. Ask your child to tell you how he or she could fix this situation.<\/h6>\n
First of all, it is important that the child repairs the damage they have caused through their behavior, and at the same time has a chance to forgive themselves. Then they should apologize to people who may have felt wronged. Studies show that children who apologize are more likely to reflect on their behavior!<\/h6>\n
Remember that the method described is a proposed action that can be modified to suit the child\u2019s personality, age and current needs.\u00a0<\/h6>\n
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